20 years ago today, I met you on a train. You'd been on a work jolly to the races and I'd been to a job interview.

I knew you were special from the moment I met you, and I wasn't wrong. Of course, transport of all kinds featured heavily in our time together with flights, car journeys, train journeys and boat trips, not to mention the sailing holidays.

Despite being so ill, you were as keen to celebrate this anniversary as me. If only you had been able to... I am heartbroken that we can't do that, but I still remember the first time I met you as a wonderful moment in my life.

I miss you.

Deborah xx